What is the secret to spiritual intelligence, conscious leadership and self-mastery?

Self-love is a topic many of us seek to avoid – yet it has a profound impact on our happiness, effectiveness and spiritual growth as human beings. What is less known, is how self-love influences leadership impact. Drawing on both her professional experience, and pioneering published academic research into authentic self-love and leadership, Dr Nerisha explores how authentic self-love profoundly impacts our ability to lead ourselves and others successfully.

Sharing inspiring insights from interviews with leaders from all walks of life, Dr Nerisha’s book highlights the critical role that authentic self-love plays in holistic human flourishing, and its critical distinction from selfishness and narcissism. The relevance of her research into self-love and leadership extends beyond corporate executives, encompassing parents, teachers, coaches, community leaders, academics, political leaders, spiritual leaders, and just about anybody who consciously chooses to lead both themselves and others to higher levels of growth and purpose.

Released in 2016, Self-Love: The Authentic Path to Conscious Leadership continues to sell copies worldwide. The book was included in the recommended reading list to doctoral psychiatry candidates at Stellenbosch University (2018) and is prescribed on various coaching training programmes.  Dr Nerisha continues to receive many requests to speak and train on the topic.

Self Love

To understand true Self-love, we need to explore: what is Self? What is Love?

Book launch hosted by the African Womens’ Chartered Accountants Association (AWCA) at Unilever – 2016

The book explores:

  • The meaning of self-love in its highest spiritual expression. drawing on ancient Eastern philosophy and psychology
  • How self-love does not equate to narcissism and selfishness
  • How our false self identifications block authentic Self
  • The Five Constructs of Self-Love
  • The impact of self-love on leadership attributes, such as authenticity and decision-making
  • Practical coaching techniques on cultivating authentic self-love

Book Reviews

“Once I got started, it was really difficult to stop. There was so much that resonated with the journey that I find myself on as a leader – as a human. This piece of work should be expanded and shared with people all around the world. I think that so many could benefit from reading your book. Because once they do, they will be propelled to seek, explore, cultivate and reignite their self-love.”

Kumeshnee West, Director Executive Education at UCT Graduate School of Business

“I have just read your book on self-love, and I want to congratulate you on a most fascinating read. Your book is full of wise understandings of higher-order thinking, and I love the way you have blended the many paths of spiritual wisdom into one. This sort of thinking is brave and challenging without being the usual motivational hogwash that one tends to see in bookshops. Well done.”

Dr Devi Rajab, Psychologist, Author and Journalist

“My dear Nerisha, thank you for a reading treat! I couldn’t wait to start it when I found it safely on my desk in Cape Town… and then I couldn’t stop until I finished it! My blue highlighter ran out of ink before I got halfway… there was so much value to underline! You have written a fine book, Nerisha. It is comprehensive, thorough and unpretentious. It is up to date, inspiring and uplifting. It made me think, meditate and pray. It is authentic, real and just, as I have learnt you to be. I will read it again! And probably again! Thank you and my warmest congratulations. It deserves great success!”

Colin Hall, Former CEO at Wooltru & SAB, and Founder of Learning to Lead